Farms.com: Describe where you were when you found out you were going to be a dad for the first time. How did it make you feel?
AL: I think I was at the kitchen table. We were building a new barn in 2019 and we were so busy with construction. When Dana told me, I was so excited.
NH: I found out around Christmas in 1989. My wife and I were overjoyed.
Farms.com: Describe the feeling of holding your newborn for the first time.
AL: It’s a surreal feeling and it makes you take a step back and appreciate things a little differently.
NH: It’s a miracle. I can remember the nurse coming to me and saying “Mr. Huitema this is your daughter.”
Farms.com: What’s the best part about being a farm dad?
AL: You’re able to see your kids throughout the day compared to if you had a 9 to 5 job.
NH: I was there every morning at breakfast and because I’m my own boss I could go to all of their school activities and sports games. And on the farm you can have them with you in the barns and in the tractors.
Farms.com: What’s the hardest part about fatherhood?
NH: Trying to guide them in their career choices.
AL: Balancing family time with work time and the farm business.
Farms.com: What’s a misconception people have about fatherhood?
AL: I’m not sure.
NH: That it’s too much work. But in the end, the rewards are much greater than any negative parts.
Farms.com: What’s your dad’s name? What are some special memories you have with him?
AL: My dad’s name is John.
NH: My dad’s name was August. I remember how hard he worked.
Farms.com: What’s one lesson you learned from your dad you try to teach your kids?
AL: I’m going to try to teach Claire good work ethic and taking responsibility for the job at hand.
NH: My dad taught us to watch the pennies because if you don’t, you’ll be working for someone else.
Farms.com: How has fatherhood changed you?
AL: It encourages you to prioritize family, so that means the farm takes a backseat sometimes.
NH: You find yourself sacrificing things you’d rather do for your kids. And that’s okay with me.
Farms.com: What’s one thing all dads have in common no matter where they are in the world?
AL: Wanting the best for their children.
NH: A responsibility to look after their children until they can look after themselves.
Farms.com: What’s one piece of advice you have for new dads?
AL: Appreciate the time you have with your children and live in the moment.
NH: Spend as much time as you can with them while they’re young. Before you know it they will be on their own.